Another thing worth mentioning here is something I learned from selling software: the best leads are the ones you have made the first contact with, not the ones that found you by "shopping around"!
If you can create interest in a woman and have her reply to your message, there are much better chances this will develop to something.
Pay attention to how they respond when you start a conversation about dating.
The key is to relax, enjoy yourself and not to analyse everything too much.
Regardless of whether you hit it off, wouldn’t it be great if you could both say that you had a good experience?
“Of course it will probably be uncomfortable for both of you,” Anthony says.
“But if he’s so uncomfortable that he gets angry or shuts down or otherwise just can’t continue the conversation, that’s a big sign that he’s not ready for this.” If so, assure your child that there’s no hurry to start dating.