Sometimes I find myself figuring out ways to revert to old behaviors and try to squash his enthusiasm. If a younger man loves an older woman to the core, there’s no stopping the forward momentum on a very exciting path. A younger man gets inspiration from your evolution into being an older woman. Don’t try to appease him by agreeing with everything he says. Have your own opinions and share conversation based on opposing ideas. This is a no-brainer, as a younger man wants his older woman to keep up with him, in both word and deed. The endorphins need to keep flowing for this partnership to last, and daily exercise and a healthy diet will keep the heart and body on fire. Maca is available in health food stores, it helps the endocrine system, balances hormones, increases vitality, energy and sexuality in both men and women, and has been my savior since I hit that “change of life” we so often dread in our 50’s. It’s as if you have a hall pass to get silly and crazy together. Travel together and the experience of the partnership just went up a notch. My pistons aren’t firing like they were back in my 30’s, but hey, he doesn’t care. A spiritual practice is essential in keeping up with a younger man. Well, when you are centered and confident and happy, the younger man will follow in your footsteps. Before long, you are sharing this incredible way of living and the peace and serenity together moves you both forward on a spiritual path.
Nothing keeps a younger man around more than a supportive older woman who is in awe of his talents and abilities.
Men in their 30's are still about having fun, adventuring, exploring and building their career, and they appreciate a drama free connection with a woman.
They don't mind the power inequity, while men who are closer to my age feel the need to battle for the position." — Paula, 673.
I guess I'm kind of an expert in this arena because I've been involved with a younger man for the past two and a half years. He's 23 years younger, which is probably a bigger gap than most couples.
The crazy thing is how perfectly suited we are to each other and how well we match on every level, even though, on the surface, it would seem like we'd have very little in common.